Something strike an inspiration..

An email on MARRIAGE.

Ok, I am not getting married. Just the contents that got me thinking.

God: "It is better for Me to give you someone who I know could grow to have all the qualities you are searching rather than to make you waste your time to find someone who already have the qualities you want"

This phrase is just oh-so appropiate, dont you think?

Instead of wanting your partner to be decisive, be responsible, be more trusting, be this & be that, impart these qualities that you hold to your partner, sharing it and grow these with him. Wouldnt it be more fulfiling than to make him change on his own, and you just hoping? Easier said than done, you say. But I truly believe God will only give you wot you can handle. Anything more, should come as a challenge, not an obstacle.

Grace once told me that in church she learnt to complement her boss and not to put him down or oppose him. Her words linger in my mind everytime im @work. If my boss could do everything on his own, would he still need assistance from you? Go ponder.

This applies to a relationship as well, I reckon. If he isnt sensitive to you, you be the sensitive one in the relationship. If he isnt trusting you, you will be the trusting one. Let him know, and feel how it is like when someone is sensitive to you, someone who trusts in you. He loves you, he wants you to feel the same way too. Then, you two will have a relation.

"It is where you and your partner make adjustments and aim not merely to please each other, but to be better human beings and to make a solid teamwork."

Now its your turn to think..

Run along... THINK.

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